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14 years ago 0 224 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Art Therapy for core beliefs?

Hello Kat,

Art can indeed have therapeutic properties in itself. Just drawing or painting can be quite relaxing and some studies have shown that it almost puts people in a meditative state of mind!

I think what the article was trying to get at when it was talking about how art therapy can change core beliefs is related to CBT, to cognitive behavioural therapy.
 
Think of it this way: you can draw or paint or sculpt a negative core belief, it doesn't have to be a pretty representation, you won't be judged for your artistic capabilities, but just creating something that represets this belief for yourself. Then you can create a piece of art that represents how this core belief can be turned into a positive one. This is a great visual representation and reminder of what you are trying to achieve!

Give it a try and let us know if it works for you.

Members, have you used art therapy before?



Luciana, Bilingual Health Educator
14 years ago 0 224 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Hitting downswings

Hello Razzy,

As Goofy mentioned, it is common to still feel grief and sadness over the loss of a loved one. I encourage you to work through the session of the program that has to do with Grief (session 17). Read through the part that deals with coping, there's some useful exercises there that may help you.
 
In regards to going through downswings. Instead of focusing on what caused the downswing, try to remember what helped you get out of your downswing the last time one happened, and if possible try re-creating this to see if it can help you overcome it faster.

Members, what helps you when you are feeling down?
 
 


 
 
Luciana, Bilingual Health Educator
14 years ago 0 224 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
10 Questions to ask your health care provider


Members, are you thinking about talking to your doctor about depression? Not sure where to start, or what kind of questions to ask. Here are some ideas that could be useful.
 
1.    What is the difference between feeling sad, and feeling majorly depressed?
2.    Are there any other medical disorders that could have caused my depression symptoms?
3.    What are some types of therapies available for me? Which one would be appropriate for me?
4.    How effective are these therapies?
5.    Do you have any information or pamphlets that I can give to my family to help them better understand?
6.    What is your experience with treating depressed individuals?
7.    What are some of the side effects that are associated with the medications you are recommending for me?
8.    For how long will I have to take these medications?
9.    How soon after starting treatment will I see improvement in my condition?
10. Is there a genetic base for depression? Could this be affecting other members in my family, or my children?
 
Members, please feel free to share other questions you have asked your doctor that have started a positive conversation.
 
Luciana, Bilingual Health Educator 


14 years ago 0 224 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Just call me Lumpy

Hello Deb,

It can be hard to get motivated especially when work seems so overwhelming. Why don't you take some time to organize those papers on your desk. Breaking your tasks down into smaller chunks is a great way to tackle a big project, and make it seem more manageable. So start by organizing them into piles, and then prioritizing what you need to get done first.

Don't be too hard on yourself it is your first day back, and even if you do get some organizing done, this will just make it easier to get going tomorrow.
 
Let us know how you are doing.
 




Luciana, Bilingual Health Educator
14 years ago 0 224 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Just call me Lumpy

Glad to see I was of some help, but really it was all you that got it done! I agree that having a delicious lunch and spending some time at the beach are in order as a way to reward yourself!

Keep it up, you're on a roll now.
 
 

Luciana, Bilingual Health Educator
14 years ago 0 224 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
technical question

Hello Deb,
 
To add an image (avatar) and other information to your profile and posts, you will need to login to your account.  Once logged in, click on the Forums page.  Above the discussion forums, on the right hand side, you will see four hyperlinks.  Choose the Support Group Options link.  Here you can upload a picture using the Browse button.  This button allows you to search for a picture on your computer.  The picture you choose must be smaller than 50KB.  Be sure to select Yes to the statement “Show your picture icon”. You can also edit your other information.
 
Lastly, don't forget to click the Submit my Changes button to insure the changes are saved.  
 
Let me know if this helps!






Luciana, Bilingual Health Educator
14 years ago 0 224 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Grateful

Goofy, that's great that you had a fun night with your old highschool friends. Hang on to this feeling, so that next time you feel anxious about an outing, you can pull this experience out of your memory as a way to reassure yourself that things will be fine.

Luciana, Bilingual Health Educator
14 years ago 0 224 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Hello

Hello Noori and welcome to our support group!

As you have already noticed, you will find people on here who are going through experiences similar to yours. Take the time to read through the forums and share your experiences and input with us. There is also the program that may be helpful, and a group program walk through for each sessions on the forum, where you can find the support you need from others!

In regards to not being able to sleep. Here are a few tips that may be helpful:
 
•Try to get on a sleep schedule. Go to bed at a regular time each night and get up at a regular time in the morning. Try to not stay up late watching TV and try not to sleep during the day. If you get on a sleep schedule, we guarantee that you’ll begin to feel better.

•Try to make the room you sleep in as quiet as possible. Consider ear plugs or a sleep mask.

•Use your bed only for sleeping. Don’t lounge around in your bed. If you spend too much time lounging in bed, watching T.V., drinking coffee, or eating, your body will learn that your bed is NOT a place for sleeping.

•If you can’t sleep after half an hour in bed don’t stay in bed trying to sleep. Get up and do some quiet activity. For example, read a book for a half hour and then try going back to bed. If you still can’t sleep, get up and do something quiet once again.

•Try to keep your bedroom at a comfortable temperature - not too cold and not too hot.

•Try to get some exercise every day. You’ll feel better and sleep will come much quicker.

•Try not to exercise or work hard late in the evening. It could make you feel ‘wired’.

•Don’t drink anything with caffeine or alcohol for 4 hours before you go to bed.

•Try not to eat a heavy meal in the evening. Don’t eat just before you go to bed.

•If you’re not sleeping at night, avoid naps during the day.

•Use relaxation techniques. Box breathing may help you relax at bed time.

Come back often and let us know how you are doing!
 
 
 

Luciana, Bilingual Health Educator
14 years ago 0 224 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
hi

Hello Pinkminke,

As you can already see from the warm welcomes, you have come to the right place to find support from people who are going through similar experiences as you. You mentioned that you are thinking about doing the program, but you are not sure this is the right time for you. Maybe you can wait until this school year is over to start tackling the program. Don't take on too much at once, it can be overwhelming.

It's normal to feel stress and anxious as the ending of the school year, as assignments and tests pile up. However, if it does get too much, I also encourage you to speak to a doctor, since that way you can have documentation of the things you are going through and maybe they can suggest some counseling. Your school might even offer free counseling services.

Feel free to come on here, and vent whenever you need to, you'll always find support from the members of the forum.



Luciana, Bilingual Health Educator
14 years ago 0 224 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
depression & anxietys affects on relationships

Red,

That is a great attitude to have! I agree with Kat, well done for making the harder choice, to stay and work things out.

Have you set any goals for yourself? How do you plan on reaching them?


Luciana, Bilingual Health Educator