i wonder if 'women in sobriety' have something similar to an AA Hotline, where you could call and talk to women in sobriety and have them come and talk to you one on one basis, rather than you going and facing the whole group? Thats what happens in a 12 step call. Usually couple of women/men depending on who calls in, visit the person who is looking for help. And after the initial rendezvous they introduce the person to the whole group.