Hi goofy and Pete,
I'm 49 and the events that changed my life happened almost exactly three years ago. Yes, I can remember the good days. I was primarily a housewife most of my adult life, raising four children. I was involved in my community, loved cooking (though my children learned to be cautious eaters...) and loved camping, hiking, reading, caving and travel. Some of these things changed by necessity when I had to return to the workforce, but when my depression hit everything stopped. I can see improvement now because about two months ago I started really reading again.
Sadly, my feelings of self worth have not improved, they have even gotten worse recently. I talked about that in the Setbacks forum. I am having more negative impulsive thoughts and feelings. My husband is supportive, but this is going on so much longer than we both had thought. It's not fair to him. My children are grown. I really am not needed by them. I really would be of more value dead, since I have gobs of insurance. But of course, I cannot actively take my life or else there is no money, so I am still here.
I have given up. I have a bully at work I cannot get away from, who cannot be stopped. HR will do nothing. My homelife is nearly nonexistent - I come home, try to eat, and pretty much just head to bed. I don't have the motivation to try any more.
How do you find the energy to try?