Yes, definitely, I think.
I've always thought about this question and at any time I realized, the difference was in the behaviour of the parents. At least in my case it was so.
I'm worrying too much and I don' know how to cope with fears like fears of losing someone you love??
There was a very nice input in one of the earlier discussions how to cope with worrying like asking questions, hogy bad it would be if that happend. But this is the point. It would be VERY bad. All I'm worring about are my loved ones. How long I can enjoy life with them.
My father died unexpectedly. So I guess these worries relate to that happening. Since then I'm just always on a level of constantly worrying about what comes next. Do you understand what I mean? is really stupid - I know. But it's somehow so frightening that these worries can be realistic - this makes me even more worry.
Another loved one had an accident some times ago. Again, absolutely unexpectedly. He lost memories of the past 6 months. Next day he got them back thankfully. But an accident like this could have caused much more serious problems. So two such situation make me worrying all the time - which is quite exhausting. But what can I do? What would be the next level of support if those 10 questions just not suffice any more?
Anybody understands this?
Thank you for listening/input - really appreciate it.