Hi this is my first post here and im just seeking some advice on my current situation ,please read and give your advice as it would be much appreciated.
i will give a brief description of the problems and hopefully come to a conclusion by typing it all out.
im 22 years of age, and have been diagnosed with dysthimia ,living with one of two older brother and i am trying to decide weather or not to move back in with my parents and the other older brother.
here are the options quickly summarized so they can be compared.
-move in with mother,father and brother ,mother has major depression but is the only family member who is sympathetic of my situation, the oldest brother who lives there is very verbally abusive towards my mother and we find support in each other dealing with him, we are currently trying to remove him from the lease so we can bassically kick him out.
-i live with the middle brother who earns substancialy more money then me but when its time to cough up for bills i have to nag him for about for days before i get any thing, and last time the issue of money came up he flew into a rage and smashed the front window of the house we rent, he is also incredibly lazy when it comes to pretty much anything (including fixing the window he smashed which i will have to fix and pay for most likly and wait a week till he pays me back) honestly im suprised he can wipe his own ass.
the reasons for moving are to try and get my life back on track i had an episode late last year and quit a good job of 2.5 yrs and have since been working odd jobs to pay the rent ,i just feel overwhelmed and moving back with my parents comes with its own set of challenges but i will be able to focus more on getting my life back,or at least thats how i feel.
the idea has been raised with the lazy brother but its like talking to a brick wall and he will never actually look for alternative housing unless i do it all for him so im thinking if i decide to leave ill just tell him im packing my stuff and give him a date as it seems its the only way he will understand im serious.
Thanks for reading if u did i feel my head is clearer now :)
