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Challenging Worry


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I might be using problem solving more now, but worry records used to help me.  Problem solving might be more appropriate now, since I'm doing more.
 
Life has to be a balance though, of doing and reflecting, so I might need to dig up the records again, since my problem solving might be slowed by my ruminating, which is similar but unproductive, and a cousin of worry
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Distraction is what works the best for me but it has to be something that I find interesting or it just won't work..
Creative cooking I like, just taking what fresh vegetables I have on hand and what ever I can find in the cupboard and creating something tasty out of it..Reading and learning is another favorite or mind and lite exercise, going to the book store is another favorite. I guess I will have to work on adding to this list.
 
Setting time aside for worry I haven't done that yet. It might be worth it to start giving it a try. I would love to be able to spend more of my time involved in postive distractions than I do in negative worrying..So yes setting a time aside for worry might be a good idea..Now sure when yet because ideally I would like to not have to worry about anything ever..Of course I guess that is not realistic but I like to think it is possible..at least for a little while..
 
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There are a number of CBT techniques that are commonly used to help people challenge worry including: thought records, thought stopping, worry time, challenging the value of worry, problem solving, experiments to increase intolerance of uncertainty and cognitive exposure. Let’s take a look at them one at a time:
Worry Time: Worry time is another simple technique that many people find extremely helpful. If you find that you worry all of the time or nearly all of the time, try setting aside a  regular time each day to do all of your worrying and then do ALL of your worrying during your Worry Time. So, for, example, if you decide that your Worry time is between 7:00 pm and 7:30 pm, then you have to do all of your worrying at that time. You set aside that time to worry each day and during that time you do nothing but worry. Your job during Worry Time is to worry as hard as you can. When Worry Time is over you get up and get back to doing something else. Distraction usually works to help people stop their worry time. If you find yourself worrying outside of your Worry Time your job is to delay or “put off” the worry until Worry Time. It is not as if you are not going to worry at all. You are just delaying the worry until later. Don’t make a list of things to worry about during Worry Time. The basic rule is if the worry is important you will remember it at Worry Time. If it isn’t important, you will forget it…but then but wasn’t important any way. Try this technique for a week and see how it works for you.

Many people who try this technique and actually set aside Worry Time each day find it very helpful.

What strategy works for you?

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