Good topic Ashley...
I have learned so much in the last year about anxiety,first,to learn how to deep breath,and relaxation for myself,then to learn and let go of all that i can not change,that includes people,and family problems...
How to cope with those feelings in a positive way...i am going to use my own experiance here...as of a few days ago,i learned that my youngest son,who i thought was being truthful to his probation officers,was indeed not,and yesterday,he was sent again to rehab,in the northern part of the state..At first,i was hurt,felt lied to,let down,,,that was the Mother in me..then i was very angry!!thats normal..i have every right to be hurt and angry,at him!
Not me or anyone elese....he brought this all on to himself...i can not change the fact..but i have accepted the fact,and now feel i may have a more peaceful Christmas knowing he is were he is....At first i took this anger out on my sister and my daughter...after a good cry,and facing them with appologies,i felt so much better that i told them what had happened and why,i felt a big load off myself,as i did not try to hide anything,even my hurt and pain....
So...the moral of this....accept what you are dealt with,accept what you can not change,and let go of the pain and hurt,that was caused...and that you have done all you can do......
Bren