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Aha, I'm the opposite...I don't worry enough...or didn't before.  My dad has always pushed the importance of thinking things out, "men think before fighting", but sometimes I can't do that...kinda have to let risk drift in the wind and go straight into something. 
 
Usually after the first initial try, I learn a lot and apply it.  If I don't get through the first time jitters, get comfortable with a situation, then I don't think straight.  Guess I've always had anxiety in that sense.
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Ok i had to go away and have a good old think about this post . My parents have always told me im a born worrier , whatever that means !!
 
I cant help it and in the past have made myself ill through it . BUT i will say now im better than i was . Guess its cos im getting older i have come to realize that most of my worry was really quite a waste of time and sometimes very silly !
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Genejocky,   By saying that you worry, do you mean stress?   There is a such thing as positive stess and it's called eustress.  This type of stress gives one a sense of fulfillment and is known to improve productivity and efficiency.         Sylvie, Bilingual Health Educator
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I am definately one of those people who worry because I believe that it will make me more productive. I will have to challenge that notion.
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Members,

There are a number of CBT techniques that are commonly used to help people challenge worry including: thought records, thought stopping, worry time, challenging the value of worry, problem solving, experiments to increase intolerance of uncertainty and cognitive exposure. Let’s take a look at them one at a time:

Challenging the Value of Worry: Many people who worry find it difficult to challenge their worry because of their basic beliefs about worrying. As we discussed before, worry a little about a problem makes some sense because it can lead to the identification of a problem and problem solving. On the other hand, worrying more that a little usually doesn’t get you any further ahead. Worrying that doesn’t lead pretty quickly to problem solving doesn’t get you anywhere. Unfortunately, many people who worry have beliefs about worrying that encourage them to worry more, rather than less. For example, if you have beliefs such as “Worrying makes me a better person,” Worrying helps me to solve problems,” “Worrying helps me do a better job,” and “Worrying about something makes it more likely that it will happen,” you may want to spend some time challenging those beliefs about worry and what worry does for you.

Does this strategy work for you?   Sylvie, Bilingual Health Educator

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