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5 years ago 0 557 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Good morning Mel,

I saw a therapist for a while and he told me that as long as I went back on track the following day, I should be fine.

I do not have liver problem that I know of although my blood exam shows enlarged red blood cells which is usually related to the liver. Before I stopped drinking, I had some slight pain. I am not sure if it was the liver or the pancreas. I notice this discomfort disappeared after a few days of sobriety. 

There is another thing that motivated me to stop; the more and more frequent blackout. When I drank alone inside the house, nobody knew but this summer when I was eating outside, I noticed I had many blackouts while talking to neighbors and not remembering anything the next day. I even have a plate and a bowl and have no idea who they belongs to and I am too embarrassed to ask them. I am waiting for them to come to me to claim it.

And you are right about mixing antidepressant and alcohol. They are two antidepressants. 

Keep up the good work. You have come a long way

M

5 years ago 0 11 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Hi M!
 
You are doing fantastic! Well done!! 

Me well not so well.. I had a drink Tuesday evening... well several actually and felt rubbish yesterday so going to have to try all over again now!

It certainly does creep up on you. I used to drink just a few glasses and still have a good night where now I feel I have to drink a certain amount of vodka for the effect. Which is usually a black out, which I never used to have.

Have you ever had any liver problems? Or abnormal enzyme blood results?
5 years ago 0 557 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Hi Mel,

How is your day going?

M
5 years ago 0 557 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Hi Mel,

I was like that before I stopped, could not stop for even a day. Been drinking since my late teen and am 60 now. It only get worse. I drank more and more. I keep a diary of my physical activities and drinking since my early 30's and I keep them. Early 30's I was drinking about 30 glasses per week. Before I stopped, I was drinking between 70 and 80 glasses per week. It seems, in my case anyway, the more I drank, the more I had to drink. I can see the slow and steady increase from my past journals. 

You are doing very well. Can you already see the physical wellness of not drinking like better sleep, more energy, etc.?

Starting Day 18 today. Already seeing the advantages. Not more hot flashes, can sleep for 6-7 hours straight, getting things done around the house instead of sitting on my butt and always pushing back things to do.

My goal is to stop for 3 months and then I will reevaluate if I keep sober or if I try to have a glass. If I can't, I will accept that slip and get back to sobriety the next day.

Take care!

M




5 years ago 0 1562 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
this is a problem for me as I’ve been telling myself I’ve done a whole week all morning so I deserve a drink! ??4

We call it the peculiar mental twist we go through prior to that first drink.Once we succumb to that desire, all bets are off.
The first step in recovery is realizing deeply we have a problem and a desire to overcome that. I encourage you to visit one of the local AA meetings. There should be open discussion meetings where all you have to do is show up and you dont even have to open your mouth. Or visit one the online forums. eaa.org has a great forum, people everywhere from the world participate.
5 years ago 0 11 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Other than when I was pregnant yes! I’ve drank since I was16 and I’m 30 next month and I can never go longer than 3 or 4 days max!
It’s like a psychological habit I’ve formed in my head! My partner said I looked completely pale last night and I had a headache all day! I’ve got to day 7 now and this is a problem for me as I’ve been telling myself I’ve done a whole week all morning so I deserve a drink! ??

How are you getting on?
5 years ago 0 557 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Very good Mel! From what I read it is your longest stretch without alcool?

M
5 years ago 0 11 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Thanks Foxman.. il definitely have a read of that!

On day 6 today... this is quite good for me!
5 years ago 0 1562 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
but when I try to cut out a day I’d usually drink on it makes me completely irritable
 
We call it the spiritual malady. We get restless, irritable and discontended. Really cranky. You definitely got to read the book.  
 
You may read the book online. You can start with "More about alcoholism", There is a Solution, The doctons Opinion and Bill story to start with.
 

5 years ago 0 557 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Exactly. The buzz is not worth it since I cannot stop after a small one....

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