Hi Barb and ND,
This whole moderation thing is so darn convoluted. The thing is, when I’m toying with having a drink night, I’m not thinking 2 drinks, oh no, I’m thinking enough to get a jag on but not so much that I blackout. As ND mentioned, to go back to the days when that was the norm, it was fun and I do miss those days. But, as you guys have pointed out parameters must be in place.
I know my problems really magnified when I started to drink alone after my husband past. It seemed the only way I could get some sleep because I can’t tolerate pills. I suppose I worked up my tolerance slowly enough in that I never suffered hangovers. I started with beer but the stuff totally sends me into allergy mode. Turns out I’m gluten intolerant. So, I switched, first to white wine, then to red which I loved…apparently too much.
So I know I cannot drink alone at all. Don’t really care for parties but if I must go, I know I have to drive so that’s out. That leaves socializing with a couple of friend’s, or the few family members, never couples, that will have a drink and only on certain occasions. So much planning it seems.
I am now wondering (after reading your post ND) whether I too will go into panic mode, terrified that I’ll lose control after being AF for almost 2 months. I’m finally sleeping a solid 7 to 8 hours every night and feel good. I do not want to jeopardize the progress I’ve made and most certainly do not want to go back to who I’d become.
In retrospect, I believe I’m a poor candidate for periodic binges. The price is just too high.
TS