Camiol,
Amazing similarities... I also quit smoking just over a year ago. I've always enjoyed drinking far more than I enjoyed smoking, because I love the taste of good wine. I too, have a much harder time with the whole concept of giving up drinking.
I did make it through dinner last night. My husband and my best friend who came along with us (both of whom have been my favorite drinking buddies for years) have no idea how many times I had to remind myself why I couldn't have just one sip of what they were drinking. I mean, a sip doesn't count, right? Just like snacking while you make dinner doesn't have any calories, right? I did tell both of them that I want/need to quit drinking entirely...for awhile. I haven't brought myself to use the word alcoholic with them, but I said that I've been drinking too much, and I feel like it's affecting my health. They are both supportive, and I am not going to tell them to stop drinking because of me -- and they carefully did not offer me anything last night. So, one big hurdle cleared. At least once.
Tomorrow will be a week, if I can make it through today. Saturdays are the hardest -- I often start drinking right after lunch so I can float through the afternoon and evening. I have no alcohol in the house, and I am going to keep myself busy today by taking my kids to gymnastics and then helping my friend move. No alcohol in the house is the key. If it's here, I know I will drink it this afternoon. It's hard to think about getting through an entire weekend without anything. I bought some fancy tea yesterday, but I haven't been able to convince myself that I can enjoy it as much.
Camiol, your bathroom/ rec room activities sound like a good way to keep yourself busy. Turn on some music really loud, put on grungy clothes, and act like a college student (without the beer). Your daughter will probably get a kick out of that. How old is she? If I can make it until tomorrow -- one whole week! -- I am going to celebrate by buying myself a pair of earrings. If I can make it a month, I will get a facial and a massage. If I can make it six months (that sounds so hard!) I will consider doing photo-laser therapy on my face, which is supposed to get rid of all those little blood vessels and sun damage. I did it once to remove a tattoo, and it worked really well. It's expensive, but six months of drinking costs about the same.
Good luck to you today. Please let me know how it goes -- I will check this site later this afternoon and let you know how I am doing. It actually helps to know that someone else is going through similar struggles. I will be thinking of you.