Camiol, I am glad that you don't beat yourself up. Wine is a tough one, it seems so civilized on the surface and is for most people. My drinking has been out of control for a long time, more than half my life now. I have all the 'classics': DUI's, detox pysch holds, homeless stints, even a shunt in my head from a drinking related head injury years ago. I have burred half the people I used to drink with in the past few years.
I think I have always know that I had a problem with alcohol, probably even before I had my first drink; as the child of an alcoholic my worst fear was to grow up and turn into this. And yes, that is what I drank in one night-ish. I have a fond habit of drinking long past black out and dumping out whatever is left, so sometimes it is hard to know how much I drank and how much I poured out. I tried for so long to moderate my drinking, just one or two, but it is not a good gamble for me.
Its always easy to have a plan, its the sticking to it part that I have never been good at. That is always my question: what do you do when everything is a trigger. I am usually good at staying sober for a while 20 days 30 days, sometimes just a couple, but I get so bored. I work from home in a very isolating profession; after sitting alone for 72 hours I get lonely and like it or not alcohol is good company, in a domestic violence sort of way.
Turquoise, the habit is a tough one for me too (sheesh, what isn't). I keep trying to get myself really into tea, it's not the same but at least you get to collect pretty glasses and decanters and go to tastings. Congrats on two weeks sober! The 4th is a tough one, holidays always kind of feel pointless with out the 'celebaration', which I guess is part of why my mindset is so backwards.