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Willis...YOU ARE GONNA MAKE IT THIS TIME....if I can do it..ANYONE CAN.  I know that you really have the desire in your heart to stay away from him.  But always know that if you slip....STOP THERE and get back on the board...ASAP..Right??? I can not speak of years of smoke free YET...but I am sure that there will be a time that it will come to me with a smile...I just don't want to take that smile...remember it will make YOUR SMILE SMELL!
I know you are a strong one Willis.....hang in there buddy.
 
Debby 
12 years ago 0 792 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Hi Vincenza, Yes I did return to smoking after a previous quit of over 3 years.There was opportunity, availability and complacency on my part. I lit one then another and eventually right back where I was 3 years prior. I have educated myself much more thoroughly on the subject of addiction this time and am banking on that to carry me through.
12 years ago 0 1853 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Hi Willis,
 
Have you experienced a sneak attack  in the past?  What were the circumstances and how did you deal with it?
You may not be able to avoid the storm, but you can control how you get through it.  Know that you have many supporters here to help you along the way. 
Hope you are enjoying a wonderful, smoke-free day!

Vincenza, Health Educator
12 years ago 0 792 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Ready, Breather,  You are right of course but what worries me is the sneak attack. The time matbe 2 years from now when the perfect storm arrives and before I know it I have taken a cigarette and all is lost. This terrifies me I think , because in the back of my mind I think it is as inevidable as the rain.
12 years ago 0 168 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
I agree, Breather. We have to see the big picture. We have to see ourselves enjoying our lives as ex-smokers - and then take it one day at a time to get there.
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Hello Ready Welcome.  I've enjoyed reading this thread. I maintain that the " secret " of longevity in being able to maintain a smober lifestyle is to have the ability to see past the immediate. What we do today in a large part affects where we end up tomorrow. If I don't have that first puff I can't have all the others that naturally follow. One is too many and a thousand cartons never enough. Postponing immediate gratification for something more substantial is how I see it. You're the most important person here. Excellent for you. breather 
12 years ago 0 12049 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Ready,
 
This is brilliant!
 
Thank you so much for your insight and post!
 
Definitely worthy of the fridge!

Josie, Health Educator
12 years ago 0 168 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Do you remember the last time you tried to quit? Was it a few days ago? A month? Maybe it's been years?
 
Whenever you find yourself longing for a cigarette, think about what your life would be like if you maintained your previous quit. Think about how much more money you'd have, how much healthier you would feel, how much more distant a memory smoking would be. Think about how good all of that would feel.
 
Then remember all of the time you spent smoking. Are you glad you smoked those cigarettes? Can you even remember any of them? Did they really make your life any better? Help you cope? Think about how negative the impact of smoking has been - all the money wasted, all the extra risks to your health - and remind yourself it had no positive impact. In many ways, you're still in exactly the same place you were on your previous quit attempt, despite whatever time has passed. Smoking didn't do you any good.
 
When you're craving that cigarette, think about how you're going to feel a year from now if you decide to have it. You'd probably still be smoking then if you gave in.
 
Then think about how good it would feel in a year to look back, remember that craving, and know you didn't give in. Think about how thankful and proud that happier, healthier, wealthier you is going to feel. Give that to yourself.
 
Maya Angelou once said she didn't quit smoking to protect the person she was, she quit to protect the person she would become. Give your future self that same gift. 

My Mileage:

My Quit Date: 6/3/2011
Smoke-Free Days: 20
Cigarettes Not Smoked: 500
Amount Saved: $300.00
Life Gained:
Days: 2 Hrs: 9 Mins: 52 Seconds: 15


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