Dutch, sorry to hear about the struggles you and your boyfriend are facing. You are so correct in saying that smoking won't fix anything. I'm glad you didn't smoke. I will keep both of you in my thoughts and prayers.
My Milage:
My Quit Date: 8/20/2008
Smoke-Free Days: 376
Cigarettes Not Smoked: 15,040
Amount Saved: $3,760.00
Life Gained:
Days: 56 Hrs: 2 Mins: 18 Seconds: 16