OK, now this might not be the answer I am "supposed" to be giving... not very politically correct....
But: yes, it annoys me to know the marketing targeting social smoking, the image they are trying to give it. But then again: our world IS dominated by marketing. It is also up to us to try to see behind the fact that people are trying to sell us and nudge us to buy things we don't need, don't want- or that might kill us.
But concerning the "social smokers" question:
We on this site are all living proof that we were not able to restrain ourselves to social smoking. There was something in our personalities that made us go for the "all-or-nothing", that made us carry around the pack of cigarettes everywhere we went. We started as social smokers and lost control. This is why we are all here.
If we had managed to stay "social smokers"- a couple a week/ a month / a year- we would not be on this site. But I think we have to admit that there ARE people out there that manage to do just that. I know a bundle! A cigarette from time to time. And we envy them, as we will NEVER be able to do this- we are addicts. The thing is, when you start smoking, you don't know whether your personality and the life you will lead will allow you to remain a social smoker- or become addicted and sick from it. So basically, I would discourage anybody from even trying.
Now of course, even smoking a cigarette from time to time is unhealthy. Then again, so is alcohol. Or eating unhealthy foods (even if they are yummy). Or not sleeping enough. Or working out too much. Or being in a bad mood all the time.
The problem is always the QUANTITY. If you compare it to alcohol: I see myself as a "social drinker". I will enjoy a glass of wine from time to time with friends, will very rarely go overboard. BUT: it is linked to social, special occasions: I would not start drinking whiskey and wine for breakfast, while waiting for the bus, etc etc etc. So in this case, it is GOOD that drinking is linked to social situations. Everything else would be addictive: and frowned upon by "society".
Now, if we managed to TRULY link smoking ONLY to social and VERY rare situations (I am sure the indians didn't smoke a peace pipe outside of the given ritual- or for another example take the use of hallucinogenic drugs in rituals in other cultures).then, actually, smoking would be ok in these circumstances.
Maybe it is possible for some.
But not for us ever again...
Cat
My Milage:My Quit Date: 4/14/2009
Smoke-Free Days: 66
Cigarettes Not Smoked: 1,320
Amount Saved: �303.60
Life Gained:Days: 5
Hrs: 6
Mins: 34
Seconds: 54