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16 years ago 0 127 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Hey guys, thanks for all the advice, I really appreciate it. My sister is coming home from london tonight and we're going to head down to the country to a health spa for the weekend. We booked it at christmas, my aunt, cousin, sister and myself. None of them smoke and I'd say it would be frowned upon! I'm quite edgy, but I'm looking forward to some bliss! [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B]2/14/2008 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 14 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 308 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] �113.96 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 0 [B]Hrs:[/B] 22 [B]Mins:[/B] 53 [B]Seconds:[/B] 19
16 years ago 0 598 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Hi ICL, Well, you need to keep "choosing life". If you decide to go back to smoking..you are on the road to sickness and addiction. And remember, it is a choice. Choices affect the rest of our lives sometimes; and this is one of them. Do not rationalize nor romanticize about smoking. There is nothing good about it. It steals your time, money, health, confidence and appearance. Why be a slave to a rolled up weed? You can do this ICL, but you have to make the choice. NO smoking! Congratulations on your first 2 weeks smoke free. I'm hoping there will be many more for you. Do this now, while you are young. What have you done to reward yourself lately? new me [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B]5/26/2007 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 278 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 6,672 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $1,390.00 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 38 [B]Hrs:[/B] 18 [B]Mins:[/B] 53 [B]Seconds:[/B] 44
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ICL, Members have provided you with excellent suggestions and ideas. It's a good idea to get started on the activities in your glove compartment, you will find very helpfull with your quit. A reward system is also great in keeping you motivated along your journey. Keep persevering! Sylvie, Bilingual Health Educator
16 years ago 0 1890 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
No, you won't have to fight this for the rest of your life, paula. There will come a time soon when you will not think of cigarettes for day and weeks and months at a time ( read what most of the Long-timers say when they come back to say Hello after being off the site for months at a time!). That is what CBT does for you. It sets up a new set of habits to replace the one for smoking. You start to not notice people who smoke (become indifferent, uninterested), you start to step well away from smokers in the street or outside building doors and hold your breath automatically as you pass by - in disgust - and then you just dismiss it from your mind altogether ... every thing that reinforces your disgust for smoking becomes embedded in your psyche until it becomes a an unconscious feeling and action - like the way we instinctively know how to walk in a crowded street without being battered to death!! It will become second nature... I have been noticing the beginnings of "it" in myself and I'm only a few weeks out of the trap. Watch for it and you'll see what I mean. Tolerance can work for you both ways... this way, losing your tolerance for smoldering tobacco IS a 'good thing' !!! Patrick (Joe Toner's boozer in Dublin and it's filthy tar stained walls from 1966 to 1973!) [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B]1/18/2008 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 41 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 1,025 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $461.25 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 7 [B]Hrs:[/B] 16 [B]Mins:[/B] 15 [B]Seconds:[/B] 52
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I am hoping you have made it thru this rough and tough stage of your quit. Please realize that when i say, it will get better, i say from experience and truly mean it. IT WILL. I know you probably hate to hear that so much (I did) but it is true. I just posted in the STATS PARADE and you have two weeks! So, remember that. Don't give in at such a crucial time - after this it is so much easier. You deserve this quit, stay strong and know that we are all here for you! p.s. in the MODS section there was a post yesterday on nicotine and dopamine you may want to read. [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B]1/7/2008 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 52 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 936 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $365.04 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 4 [B]Hrs:[/B] 17 [B]Mins:[/B] 24 [B]Seconds:[/B] 3
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ICL Poor Baby, I know it is tough, and especially at your age and peer pressure. But, in today's society, even that is much different than when I was your age! My brother in law quit at your age, and has stayed quit for over 30 yrs now. He tried hypnosis and he was tolf then that it has a greater chance on working on younger, more suggestible minds. I do not know if it would work for you, but it might be worth a try! Hang in there, I know you can do it and you KNOW you need to stick to this! Hang Tough! Smiles and Hugs! ;-) [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B]1/21/2008 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 38 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 684 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $145.35 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 5 [B]Hrs:[/B] 8 [B]Mins:[/B] 6 [B]Seconds:[/B] 59
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icl you won't have to fight this the rest of your life, the elder quitters all assured me that thinking about it gets less and less as time goes by. just like an alcoholic who can't have a sip of alcohol i can't have a puff of tobacco unlessi want to live like an addict and i don't. eventually the good days will outnumber the bad days. i remember when i quit before for four months being amazed one day that i hadn't thought about it the whole day. that was after only 4 months. that's what i'm looking forward to elaine [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B]1/4/2008 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 55 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 1,100 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] �387.75 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 6 [B]Hrs:[/B] 4 [B]Mins:[/B] 58 [B]Seconds:[/B] 6
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ICL, I can't really comment on the seratonin/dopamine thing but if you do an internet search you'll find some good stuff I'm sure. Also you could check out whyquit dot com for some interesting articles and what not. It will get better. It is a bit like starting to play an instrument - if you picked up the guitar for the first time, it would sound pretty bad. It would take a good amount of practice before it sounds anything like music. Same thing with quitting. You'll have to reconcile the fact that you will always have the option to smoke. If you want to stay quit, you will just always choose not to. There have been lots of successful quitters that were not fully committed and it grew over time. Many choose to re-evaluate their decision after a month or two and decide if they want to continue. Most do. You've made it nearly three weeks which IMHO shows at least a 50% commitment ;) It would take more fighting to get me to smoke now than it would to stay quit. It's been this way for me for over two years now - you'll get here but it happens one day at a time. All the best [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B]8/5/2004 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 1302 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 26,040 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $5,859.00 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 101 [B]Hrs:[/B] 10 [B]Mins:[/B] 57 [B]Seconds:[/B] 26
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16 years ago 0 591 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
I know that I am missing part of this, so anyone feel free to add to it at any point, eh? Nicotine causes the brain to be flooded with seratonin. There are receptors that take seratonin and do the lovely things with it that seratonin does. Well, because there is so much of it, many of the receptors shut down. Then when you quit smoking your seratonin production goes back to normal but you don't have many receptors left to take it and do lovely things with it. This is why you're crabby and can't sleep. The receptors do open back up, but it takes time. The act of rewarding yourself helps them along! It's why we all push it so much. I don't know anything about that herb, so I can't comment on it. I took 5 HTP from the health food store sometimes - which is the thing that is produced to produce seratonin. As far as detoxing goes - try your best to get lots of fruits and vegies - especially vitamin A and Vitamin C ones and all smokers are low on Vitamin A to begin with. Crucifers (brussels sprouts, brocholli, couliflour, greens) are known to make the liver produce enzimes that carry cigarette toxins out of the body. Drink lots and lots of ice water! It helps a LOT. Put a wedge of lemon in it here and there and it will help even more. [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B]7/17/2006 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 590 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 44,250 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $11,062.50 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 52 [B]Hrs:[/B] 17 [B]Mins:[/B] 2 [B]Seconds:[/B] 0
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Hi ICL.. I M few days ahead of your quit.. and a few decades older...And I WISH I had quit at 23. I know there are some herbal medications to help. I know St. JOhn's Wort is one. If you have an herbal store in your area the person there may have some great recommendations.. and you could also use it as one of your rewards. Today my throat is tickley.. I know we are getting back taste receptors that we have for yrs burnt off our tongues with hot smoke.. the cilia are growing back.. and will help keep virus and other irritants away. Nicotine also affects Dopamine receptors in our brain.. we have our brain cells and receptors.. and i think of some of the receptors like little bridges.. that connect.. we have been doping up and altering our brain checmicals.. so the little bridges and receptors are now figuring out how to work without nicotine.. so our bodies are adjusting and our brain chemicals are going through an adjustment also.. So don't kick yourself to hard. Today... I have been questioning myself... how committed are you.. Are you 100% committed? Well after reading your post.. I see it is the "junkie" talking and Not us. At 23... if you have children,, you have a better chance at pregnancy, less chance of miscarriage, way better chance of carrying the baby to full term and also the baby has a better chance of being normal weight. Your lungs are going to much healthier in such a short time.. and Your heart is doing jumping jacks. Your blood has more oxygen and less junk to get rid of. Your cholesterol will be better and less chance of stroke or heart attack with out carbon dioxide and rat poison and whatever else is in that white stick. Come on .. Let's Get healthy. I am a grandma and want to watch my grandkids grow.. graduate.. etc. [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B]2/10/2008 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 17 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 289 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $45.52 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 2 [B]Hrs:[/B] 13 [B]Mins:[/B] 40 [B]Seconds:[/B] 38

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