Goofy
I wish I had an answer for you, but my quit has been a solitary affair. I would imagine that the dynamic of two people quitting at the same time might be a bit more complicated.
Perhaps she is not even aware of the fact that she is causing you such distress. She may be struggling to such a degree that her level of hostility, although obvious to you, may not be so apparent to her. Remember too she may have used cigarettes to keep a lid on difficult emotions. In any case, a good long chat in a relaxed and non-confrontational situation may be the order of the day.
I know it is always difficult to seperate the person from their behavior, but I have always believed that people are not their behavior and if you feel a deep connection to them, attempting to make the distinction between the two is sometimes the most loving thing that you can do.
nonic
[B]My Milage:[/B]
[B]My Quit Date: [/B]12/25/2006
[B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 345
[B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 10,350
[B]Amount Saved:[/B] $3,622.50
[B]Life Gained:[/B]
[B]Days:[/B] 63 [B]Hrs:[/B] 1 [B]Mins:[/B] 12 [B]Seconds:[/B] 43
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Quit Meter
$70,728.00
Amount Saved
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Quit Meter
Days: 1548
Hours: 17
Minutes: 12
Seconds: 45
Life Gained
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Quit Meter
6736
Smoke Free Days
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Quit Meter
202,080
Cigarettes Not Smoked