Rusty, it is so like you to be fair and level-headed and compassionate no matter how volatile the subject. Thank you for that.
You are right, of course, this is a stop smokin site, we do say do whatever it takes,and tryagain has stopped smoking.
The problem I have though, is that this is a support site, not a justify your addiction site.
Tryagain has chosen to remain addicted to nicotine, and there's nothing really wrong with that, she's a grown-up & it isn't illegal. It's tryagain's posts that I take exception to because the only support she seems to be looking for is support for that decision.
Tryagain seems to want validation that she is exceptional because she has more stress than the rest of us, she has anger issues, she is financially strapped, and on & on. What she appears to be asking for in her posts is agreement that these are good reasons to remain on NRT indefinitely.
I find it really frustrating to see the good, caring people here, including you, Rusty, putting time & effort & heart into helping someone who doesn't really want help. Every attempt is either ignored or met with some lame excuse. I don't think that will change until somebody finally does agree with her.
This is my last word on the whole subject. I have been judgmental about it & I am obviously not capable of saying anything nice anymore, so as we all earned, best to say nothing.
[B]My Milage:[/B]
[B]My Quit Date: [/B]5/13/2007
[B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 175
[B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 3,500
[B]Amount Saved:[/B] $1,925.00
[B]Life Gained:[/B]
[B]Days:[/B] 17 [B]Hrs:[/B] 13 [B]Mins:[/B] 27 [B]Seconds:[/B] 6