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Taylor, What you're going through is completely normal! My hardest day of the quit was day 10. I think that was because the first few days, I was proud, excited and was reading all kinds of new things and that kept me going. But then, I felt like I should be "over" this by now, and started getting frustrated with myself. It sounds to me like you're kinda doing the same thing. No, you will NOT feel like this forever... but it does take some time. If you're like most smokers, you smoked for many years... while 7 days is an awesome accomplishment, you're not going to be over this addiction in a week. It may take a few months to retrain your brain to do things without smoking. Whatever you do, do NOT go back to smoking now! The only way to become a well-adjusted, comfortable ex-smoker is to not smoke. Going back to smoking now, while it might SEEM like a good idea because you're craving, will NOT be a good idea because you will feel sad, guilty and will be right back where you started and all of the hard work that you've done for the last 7 days will be for nothing. I KNOW you don't want to do that! Unfortunately, there's no way to speed up the meter and get to that comfortable spot without going through the hard times. But I also promise you that the comfortable time WILL come. Just hang in there. Hope you had a good nap. Crave the Quit! Pam [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 10/28/2005 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 401 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 10,038 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $1656.13 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 29 [B]Hrs:[/B] 3 [B]Mins:[/B] 20 [B]Seconds:[/B] 29
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Taylor, DAy 7 and 8 were by far my worst days so far. Day 13 and 14 have been awesome hardly any cravings. like you I also smoked for almost 30 years. Not sure what tomorrow will bring but I am feeling that there really is a light at the end of the tunnel. I'm beginning to beleive I can do this. So hold on tight !!!! It will get better. [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 11/18/2006 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 15 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 412 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $150 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 1 [B]Hrs:[/B] 12 [B]Mins:[/B] 5 [B]Seconds:[/B] 25
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Taylor, Do not feel mad and defeated because you are winning the battle. You are still smoke free and have been for seven days! Try rewarding yourself for staying smoke free. Every quitter will experience a rough patch. Go into survival mode and do anything you think may help get you through because it will pass. Danielle __________________________ The SSC Support Team
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Taylor Personally, I was the w*tch from hell for the first three weeks - one of the reasons that I NEVER want to have to quit again. Now I am getting close to a year I can hand on heart say there are fleeting moments when I wonder what it would be like to smoke again (maybe once a week), BUT, the advantages and they way I feel now, I do not ever want to go back to smoking ever again. Hang in there - you really have done the hardest part. L [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 1/19/2006 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 318 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 5,098 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] �1351.5 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 28 [B]Hrs:[/B] 18 [B]Mins:[/B] 23 [B]Seconds:[/B] 57
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We are sitting in the same chair I see! (And the same quit date) The first 5 days were a breeze for me too! That last 2 have been more difficult, and I have just spent the last hour crying. (Hubby not always my biggest supporter, but them I'm not my biggest supporter either.) I am really trying not to give the thoughts too much of my attention. Distraction, like you are doing is good. So is taking a nap. What I feel right now though, is that this isn't just about quitting smoking. There is a lot of emotional stuff that is coming too light too, and that is the part that is painful. So I am telling myself that it is a process of recovery. That one hurtful incident, hour, or minute will not be my excuse smoke. That was the way I always handled things before. That is why I am here. Because I didn't like handling life (or not) by smoking. Just remember that your are talking to a Junkie that wants a fix, and he/she is a liar - plain & simple. We can do this together. Come visit me in the Rookery and we will learn how to fly together. [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 11/26/2006 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 7 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 150 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $80.5 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 0 [B]Hrs:[/B] 17 [B]Mins:[/B] 35 [B]Seconds:[/B] 53
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so ok....the thinking about smoking won't leave....so HOW do you let yourself think about smoking??? are you wishing, longing, remembering the taste, the hit of the drug, etc??? or are you letting your thoughts slide past that to how you feel withOUT the cigs??? Do you feel cleaner...do your clothes smell cleaner...does your car smell cleaner....how much money have you saved and how are you going to spend it....have you made any reward plans at all????? do you see how thinking about smoking can be turned around??? Think about the day that these thoughts WON'T invade your mind hour after hour....cause trust me, it WILL come. you have only quit for one week....that generally is the worst week of quitting....you are gonna have to hang in here and give yourself some time....personally I smoked for YEARS....and thinking about it finally stopped 99% after a bit over a year.....I call that a pretty good trade off. Generally speaking a month will see you having stretches of time not thinking about smoking. the times then become longer and longer hang tough Katy [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 1/4/2002 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 1794 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 71,783 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $10225.8 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 234 [B]Hrs:[/B] 1 [B]Mins:[/B] 52 [B]Seconds:[/B] 42
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