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John? Haven't heard from you in a bit - just wanted to check in on you again. Please post and let us know how you've been doing! Infinite_D [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 5/21/2005 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 383 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 8,045 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $421.3 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 49 [B]Hrs:[/B] 12 [B]Mins:[/B] 48 [B]Seconds:[/B] 2
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Yes, yes. Hoping all is well with you John! Keep up the good progress! :) Happy Friday tomorrow to everyone! Yeeeeeee haw! ;) Infinite_D P.S. Sorry for red necking out on all of you for a moment there. I don't know what came over me. :p [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 5/21/2005 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 377 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 7,918 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $414.7 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 48 [B]Hrs:[/B] 18 [B]Mins:[/B] 6 [B]Seconds:[/B] 37
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Hello again John. Good to hear that you're still avoiding chew and making progress. Yes, the increased desire to eat is normal. You're already onto the sunflower seeds which is good, also try chewing gum and make sure you're getting plenty of water. Exercise is a great idea! Not only will it help take your mind off of tobacco, but it should also help you to deal with stress on your own without the crutch of tobacco, and, of course, helps with the weight-gain issue. As you continue to cut down on nicotine and flush those toxins out of your body you will begin to feel better and better. That's great that you've made it through today with only one cig. Have you set a quit date yet? Keep up the great work! Infinite_D [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 5/21/2005 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 367 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 7,721 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $403.7 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 47 [B]Hrs:[/B] 12 [B]Mins:[/B] 58 [B]Seconds:[/B] 30
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Hey John. Haven't heard from you in a couple of days. Just dropping in to check and see how you're doin'. :) Take care. Infinite_D [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 5/21/2005 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 370 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 7,770 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $407 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 47 [B]Hrs:[/B] 20 [B]Mins:[/B] 16 [B]Seconds:[/B] 16
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John, Congratulations on not having any dip and in reducing your tobacco intake! I know the feeling when problems arise and you're trying to quit using tobacco. Just makes it all that much harder. But not impossible! ;) I used a similar tactic when I knew I wanted to quit using tobacco. I starting taking fewer and fewer dips of tobacco, and also reduced the size of the dips I was taking. Basically, trying to wean myself off of the stuff. I don't know if it really helped or not, but I guess I thought it did at the time. But the bottom line is that you have to do what works for you. Maybe next time you feel all stressed out and get the urge for a "fix" you can reach for a piece of gum, or a handful of sunflower seeds. I know I sure found those things helpful. Congratulations on your progress, and keep it up! You're on your way to being an ex-tobacco user! Infinite_D [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 5/21/2005 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 365 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 7,682 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $401.5 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 47 [B]Hrs:[/B] 7 [B]Mins:[/B] 12 [B]Seconds:[/B] 41
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Sabathious - Hello and welcome to the SSC! Congratulations on your decision to quit tobacco. I am an ex-dipper. I used chewing tobacco and smoked cigarettes and cigars for about the same amount of time as you. Smokeless tobacco was my primary staple, but I also enjoyed an occasional cigarette or cigar. No, it's not an easy habit to give up, and I remember the feelings you describe quite well. I will say, however, that giving up that nasty habit is VERY well worth the effort, and temporary discomfort which comes with the territory. I can tell you as Shevie mentioned, the best method of quitting is the one that works for you. I can tell you what I did personally to get off the junk, but it may or may not work for you too. You are definitely in the right place to get the help you need to be successful in your quit. Glad you never fell for the heroin. ;) I look forward to seeing you around! Take care. Infinite_D [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 5/21/2005 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 362 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 7,616 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $398.2 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 46 [B]Hrs:[/B] 21 [B]Mins:[/B] 26 [B]Seconds:[/B] 52
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Hi, John. It's good to hear from you. So you live where the neighbors try to run your life, too, huh? I'm going to have to pull weeds sometime soon before the homeowners association starts waving the fine schedule at me. But it won't be [u]this[/u] weekend! :eg: But crap happens all the time, doesn't it? I'm really happy to hear you've been dip-free this week, and only 7 - 8 cigs over several days is great. But keep in mind that you are keeping nicotine in your system, and that's going to keep the addiction processes active. Don't get me wrong here, John. I am not *****ing at you. I think you've made great progress and I give you a big thumbs up for it. You should be very proud of what you've accomplished with all the other stuff going on, I am certainly proud of you. I just want you to keep in mind that you aren't quit yet. I just want you to keep making more progress until you are. OK? Keep up the good quit, John. We're all still pulling for you. Shevie [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 5/23/2005 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 361 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 7,238 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $1371.8 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 67 [B]Hrs:[/B] 11 [B]Mins:[/B] 22 [B]Seconds:[/B] 52
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Good morning, John. Yep, the first three days feel like six months, the next couple of weeks are about 3 months long, then in just a few days your at 3 months, and you blink and it's a year. There is some major time distortion when you quit. Headaches, sleep problems (too much or too little), mood swings are all normal. In a couple of more days (not a lifetime, I assure you) the nicotine will be out of your system and a lot of this craziness will settle down. Right now you just need faith and patience. Drink lots of water to flush out your system and distract yourself however you can. Infinite_D and I found sunflower seeds worked wonders. I shelled and ate them one at a time - lots of activity for hands and mouth, but very little intake. I think the stock value for David's Seeds went up around the time we quit. :) Stay close and keep us updated as you can. We're pulling for you, John. Shevie [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 5/23/2005 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 358 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 7,169 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $1360.4 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 66 [B]Hrs:[/B] 19 [B]Mins:[/B] 52 [B]Seconds:[/B] 44
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Hi, John. Welcome to the SSC and congratulations on your quit. Smoking, chewing, dipping, snorting. Tobacco is tobacco, nicotine addiction is nicotine addiction. The only difference is the delivery system. Sounds like you're already into the physical withdrawal part of it. This is good! No matter how horrible it may feel, try to keep in mind that what you are feeling is actually a healing process. If you haven't already done so, I strongly suggest you go through this site's Online Quit program. It is targeted to smoking, but like I said, tobacco is tobacco. I also suggest you read Infinite_D's "Here I go again" thread in this forum. He's coming up on his one year tobacco-free anniversary soon and has led others into their quits also. Try to take life as slow as possible for the next couple of weeks, John. Nicotine has invaded every aspect of your body's and brain's chemistries over the 13 years and they have become quite comfortable with its presence. Now that it's gone, those chemistries are, simply put, totally whacked. They will eventually settle down and adjust, but it will take time. Just be patient. I'm glad you've decided to join us, John. Stay close, read much, post often. Don't stay confined to this forum, you're welcome in them all. You can do this, John. We can help. :) Shevie [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 5/23/2005 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 358 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 7,161 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $1360.4 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 66 [B]Hrs:[/B] 18 [B]Mins:[/B] 1 [B]Seconds:[/B] 58
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Hi, John. Just checking in to see how you're doing. I'm afraid I'm a bit scarce on the SSC now; up to my nether regions in alligators. The "It'll never happen to me" thought, as well as the "I'll deal with it when it happens" thought are all too familiar. I would not allow myself to think of me ever having the "Oh man, why didn't I quit?" thought. Such is the addicted brain: happy and willing to stand tall and walk proudly into self-destruction. I sometimes think it's harder for users of smokeless to quit. Not because their addiction is stronger, but because the "tobacco bad" focus is on cigarettes. Pipes, cigars, and smokeless don't get any attention at all, at least none that I remember. So their users don't have it pounded into their heads like cigarette smokers do. I was hoping you'd post today. Are you still hanging in there? If you've had another slip, that's fine. Fall back, regroup, and have at it again. Very few people, smokers or dippers, make it the first time. The really important thing is that you just keep trying. As long as you continue to try, you have not failed. Let us know how you're doing. :) Hi, Infinite. Glad you stopped by. One year this Sunday! Woooohoooo!! Shevie [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 5/23/2005 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 361 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 7,222 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $1371.8 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 67 [B]Hrs:[/B] 7 [B]Mins:[/B] 34 [B]Seconds:[/B] 20

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