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18 years ago 0 2436 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Hi Me, I sure do understand, dear one... The dreams, and the anger snuck up on me when I wasn't looking. ALL food sounds good at times, and I cry over a beautiful butterfly flapping its wings, so I'm right here with ya. Hell, a good Larry King Live show can bring me to tears, so know the emotional roller coaster well -:-) You are not alone. Come here and post and get it all out. We're all going through the same stuff. Blessings and Light- Healer xox [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 3/5/2006 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 17 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 621 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $40.8 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 2 [B]Hrs:[/B] 7 [B]Mins:[/B] 15 [B]Seconds:[/B] 51
18 years ago 0 61 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
me, your 25 .... stay quit!!! or do you want to wait until your 43 and in the middle of a seperation and losing your daughter? Look, I have read enough, been through enough to know, there is no proper time, right time, or easy time to quit ... life isn't fair and it sucks some times... You have been quit for 8 days and that is a LOT!!!! It is all down hill from here, be proud and don't worry about those who smoke, just take care of yourself and stay away from the stuff... think about it this way, if I had stopped at 25, I would have probably enough to have bought another house!!! phoenix
18 years ago 0 415 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Well Well Well you sound just like me. The never crying, never showing weakness, the schizo part, heck I am 24 and smoked since I was 12! But I am now 37 days into my quit and I feel really good! You can do this. I am not exaggerating about how much you sound like me to make you feel better!!! Go back and read some of my earliest posts. You will see that you and I arent that different! Smoking is not going to make you feel better trust me. This is my first quit attempt. I quit cold turkey. I went through hell....I guess thats the best word to describe it even though I felt like it was worse then hell if that was possible. You just made it through hell week and you can make it forever. I also had those junkie thoughts about never being able to smoke one again. There were also times I felt as though I was just seeing how long I could go without a cigarette and that I would eventually smoke one. I didn't and I am so pleased with myself. It is a greater accomplishment to not smoke then its is to smoke. You have to choose everyday not to smoke. It does get easier I promise you that. Yes there will be "those" days but they will start to come few and far between. Just hang in there and come and rant, vent, scream, cry, and whatever else you want to do. This is a horrible addiction that can bring even the toughest to their knees!! Hold on a new day is coming! The Chicken [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 2/12/2006 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 37 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 372 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $138.75 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 2 [B]Hrs:[/B] 12 [B]Mins:[/B] 8 [B]Seconds:[/B] 12
18 years ago 0 893 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Me, you come and rant here as much as you need to, we are here to listen and support you as much as we can. When can you be considered a non-smoker? you are one from the minute you light up that last fag and you will remain one so long as you don't light up another. You should feel very proud of what you have achieved so far, ask anyone on this site and all will agree that 9 days is a fantastic achievement. Do not do yourself down, you are not pathetic - quite the opposite in fact for deciding to give up in the first place. There is no such thing as a casual smoker in my book, you either smoke or you don't! The emotions you are going through are not uncommon you are, after all, trying to break a very strong addiction. Just hang on in there, you are in the most difficult part of your quit and things will soon start to get easier. I can promise you, from the bottom of my heart, that if you continue with your quit you will never regret it - for the rest of your life. Keep strong! :) [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 2/6/2006 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 43 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 518 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] �107.5 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 7 [B]Hrs:[/B] 21 [B]Mins:[/B] 13 [B]Seconds:[/B] 17
18 years ago 0 92 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
I'm 26. Don't give up. I smoked for the last 8 years or so. I just resisted an urge 5 minutes ago. I only feel like smoking at work. Trust me, you will be more attractive to the opposite sex and you'll feel better. I don't have that annoying smokers cough anymore. I still get REALLY strong urges that are hard to deal with. Especially when I see others smoking. I'm buying a house which is tough on my nerves too. Why do you have smokes anyway? Don't buy them, don't bum them. Just don't smoke. All the way up until you light up you have the choice. Exercise it. I've been bribed by the guys at work to smoke. They tell me all kinds of not-cool things to try and make me give up. "You've made your point" "Isn't it time to relapse again?" They show me cigarettes You know what... mysery loves company. They lay it on pretty thick. If I can resist the urge when it's even being force upon me, so can you. I've cried, I've given in. I actually think it's worse when you fall off the horse and try and get back on, then when you give it your first shot at quitting. Don't freakin smoke! [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 2/24/2006 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 25 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 433 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $112.5 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 2 [B]Hrs:[/B] 15 [B]Mins:[/B] 42 [B]Seconds:[/B] 5
18 years ago 0 5195 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Hi again ME. Just wondering how you are doing. Let us know. [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 7/1/2005 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 263 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 5,272 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $920.5 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 23 [B]Hrs:[/B] 5 [B]Mins:[/B] 34 [B]Seconds:[/B] 33
18 years ago 0 5195 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Good morning Me. I hope you are feeling better after your rest and ready to take on another day smoke free. A lot of us turn into crying machines when we quit. I always felt like Superwoman, could handle any obsticle until I quit and then I would cry at any given moment for no reason at all. I think the first couple of months I cried more than I have in my entire life. Quitting is an emotional rollercoaster. Think about it. We smoked for every reason. When we were happy, sad, lonely, needed a break, stressed, bored, celebrating, mourning...every emotion you can think of was followed by a cigarette. You have taken that crutch away from your brain and it doesn't quite know how to adjust yet. Lose the negative talk. You are not a loser, you are not skitzo, stop saying you can't do this because you can. You have made the best decision you can for yourself. To quit smoking. Replace it with possitive thinking. I can do this, I am a winner, I am taking my life back from the enslavement of smoking. Quitting may be one of the hardest things you ever do but it is worth it. It takes time to adjust but I promise you that once you work through all these emotions you will emerge a better, happier, healthier person. I never realized until I quit smoking how much control it had over me and my life. Once I realized this I got ticked off and decided it wasn't going to control me any longer. Take back your life from the addiction. It belongs to you. [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 7/1/2005 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 263 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 5,267 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $920.5 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 23 [B]Hrs:[/B] 5 [B]Mins:[/B] 0 [B]Seconds:[/B] 16
18 years ago 0 104 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Good morning from Oregon :) Now that you have hopefully slept for awhile, the day may have an entire new feeling. I want to share something with you. I am also here for support. I too had a difficult time quitting, although I do feel much more at ease with the quit now. I have only one major regret and that is..I wish I had quit decades ago. I am 52 and had spent the majority of my life smoking. By smoking for so long, I know I have hurt my body physically. I have spent thousands of dollars. I have limited my life experiences to those events that would allow me to smoke. I could go on and on ..how my life was controlled by cigarettes. YOU are 25 and have the chance now to end this habit and enjoy the decades to come. I do know how tough it is for you right now; All of us here can relate. But keep on fighting, and keep on posting. And then at age 52 you can smile as you remember the battle you conquered so many years ago :)) love, sally [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 1/31/2006 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 49 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 988 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $196 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 5 [B]Hrs:[/B] 18 [B]Mins:[/B] 27 [B]Seconds:[/B] 45
18 years ago 0 82 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Hello I am Tojo. I am on day 54. I go day by day. I smoked heavy for the last 35 years. I tried to quit last year but my mind was not ready. So I put it off. This year I decided to get healthy and did a lot of research on cigarette addiction. I used to kid myself saying it was a bad habit and never admitted it was a drug addiction. I came to this site many many times and read and read and read. It has helped me overcome my fears of not being able to survive without the cigarettes. I also decided to join a smoking cessation support group to continue my success. I figured the more help I get the better chance I have of continuing being smoke free. I have had some very bad days and some good days. It does get better, but I am always on guard so I don't get addicted. Just hang in there and take one day at a time. I use the commit lozengers which have helped me tremendously. Some days I think of how it used to be when I smoked. Believe me I really enjoyed my cigarettes. But I am learning the new me, no crutch, no addiction and it takes a while learning about myself. Yesterday we had snow and I wasn't able to go to work. Before I would have had to make sure I had plenty of smokes and it was nice not having to worry about driving out in the crazy weather to make sure I got my fix. There are so many, many wonderful things about being a non smoker. Being a smoker destroys us. Keep the faith, believe in yourself, visit this site as often as you need and take one day at a time. You can do it.
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18 years ago 0 2462 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Okay, since we're all sharing our ages here...I'm 56, smoked since I was 16. And you're telling me you can't do it? Of course you can do it. You'll have to do some hard work. You'll have to want to do it. And believe it or not, as hard as you think you're trying right now? You'll have to try harder. If you truly want to quit, you will not let anyone or any thought or any circumstance get in your way. You will protect those 9 days like your 9-day-old baby. So what if you cried 3 times yesterday? Is that your measure of failure? Failure is giving up. Just like healthy2, I look back at my life and regret 40 years of destroying my body. I wish I had quit long ago. Please, please hang on to your quit. Please don't continue to be an addict. Rusty [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 12/13/2004 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 463 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 12,977 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $1620.5 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 63 [B]Hrs:[/B] 18 [B]Mins:[/B] 6 [B]Seconds:[/B] 59
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