Was on effexor for three years. 150 mg per day. Had excessive sweating, loss of sex drive (how is that not depressing?) and the tingling/electrical feeling people have mentioned on this thread. Still, suicidal thoughts disappeared and I was much more able to function on a day to day basis.
Found myself in Latin America at the end of those three years, in a rural area, and my bag was stolen with my meds. Couldn't get to the capital to replace them for four days, and wasn't sure I trusted the pharmacies anyway, so was forced into cold turkey withdrawal. Mother of God, I hope I never have to experience that again. So I wouldn't let them put me back on the medicine when I returned stateside.
Have been a year and a half drug free, but went into a recent depressive tailspin that is affecting my work and my marriage. Am considering meds again, but read this board and am reminded of the negative things that went with the pills.
What's better, utter depression in reality? Or being sweaty, impotent, and happily sedated? Honestly I don't know. I understand what you're all going through and I hope you're more successful at finding a way through it than me.