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12 years ago 0 619 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
1, 2 and 3: I would like to feel more reliable and confident (not having so many ups and downs in my life)
4: I would like to believe that I am a capable person and not comparing all the time with other people.
5: I would find some useful long-terms goals for myself and work everyday to bring them closer.
12 years ago 0 6252 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Samantha.

Interestingly the answer to the first three questions is, just as I am.
4 That what I am doing is right.
5 I would be more assertive.

This is not necessarily good. It just is how I am.

Why the concern with the world and other people. I don't understand this concern since it has such a possibility to think negative unless it is to make the fact that so many do think negative over these issues. It is not the world or other people that have to change, it is our perception.
The world needs to change but won't till it is possibly too late as do people need to change too but that too might not happen till it is too late. We can start by changing us and our piece of the world. That I think is all we can do. It might be enough if we all did it.

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Members,
Once you’ve identified your negative core beliefs you can begin to challenge and change them. This means that you’ll be challenging the source of your depression. However, in order to challenge your negative core beliefs you need to identify and test out some new positive core beliefs.
Instead of focusing on the negative core beliefs you have about yourself, the world, other people and the future, we’re going to get you to focus on developing new and more positive core beliefs. In order to do that, we want you to think about how you’d like to be, how you’d like the world and other people to be, what you’d like the future to look like.
As the first step towards developing more positive core beliefs we’d like you to ask and answer the following questions. Write out your answers in the space provided before you move on to the next page:
Questions about Yourself
1. What would you like to be like?
2. What kind of person would you like to be?
3. How would you like to behave?
4. What would you like to believe about yourself?
5. How would you be acting differently if you believed that about yourself?

Samantha, Health Educator

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