Hello all. I found that stress management techniques, even if we understand them, they are difficult to incorporate in our daily lives. Yesterday I had a pleasant day with an exception. I was getting ready to go out to the beach and I didn't found my sunglasses and beach towel. Because I am very anxious I get crazy about not knowing where I put my things. I was stresses about this and my mother called me to have a coffee with her after 1 or 2 hours. I love very much my mother but this is the kind of situations that annoys me much and contributes for the increasing of anxiety. Trying do do several things at the same time. I get frustrated and overwhelmed even with small things like this. At first I got very anxious and said that could have coffee with my mother. But later I was feeling really bad and have a phone call with my mother explaining the situation, that I would like to go to the beach, and that I would like to be with her but had already other plans. I advice her, if she want to help me, to call in advance so I can arrange the necessary time to be with her.
I know it is my mother and I love her very much. But it seems I have to educate people who are important to me, about my emotions, and especially my family, so they can understand and contribute for my recovery.
Members, I would like to know if you use the word "NO" and if you find it useful as a stress management technique.