Ooops.....sorry, Ashley, for being flippant. Hope I'm not in too much trouble - at least it shows I have a sense of humour intact.
Anyways, to your question. I have an ingrained conviction that I'm not as good as other people, not entitled to voice opinions (as my opinions are automatically inferior, ill-informed and insignificant), not capable of achieving, not capable of success, lost and all at sea in the myriad personal exchanges and relationships that are the currency of a full human life.
This manifests itself in a sometimes obsessive and aggressive secrecy, a need to be unseen, to attract no attention, to be forgotten and ignored. In any relationship, I put myself a couple of rungs below the other person, always submissive, always handing them the initiative, always seeing them as being in authority over me. You can imagine how counterproductive this has been for my career and my creative endeavours, too. I write poetry but just feel it's not good enough to share, I make music and would not dream of singing and playing for anybody else.
Being praised, which I have been at times, makes no difference at all to the kernel of defeat sitting at my core. Neither does cool appraisal of the evidence. I suppose you could sum up this core belief in the phrase I use to myself and which characterises my conduct - 'I'm just not a real person'.