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14 years ago 0 910 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Hey Goofy, That CBT therapist is great news!
 
Sparkles, for me, what has helped me is to plan on doing one every night before bed. But if I don't I forgive myself and begin anew the next day.
14 years ago 0 11213 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
goofy,
 
Great news goofy!  You will have to tell us how it goes with the CBT therapist.
 
Sparkles,
 
Try to schedule a time everyday where you can write down your thoughts.  Make it part of your routine like brushing your teeth.  Remember it is important to record your thoughts when you are feeling good and reflect on them when you start to feel down.
 
Members, how do you remind yourself to record yout thoughts?
 
Ashley, Health Educator
14 years ago 0 7 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
I'm not receiving outside assistance at this time.
What's holding me back is that:
a) I recently moved & don't have a doctor yet
b) I've been trying to work through this on my own
c) I've seen a doctor about depression before (many years ago), and all she did was prescribe medication; I don't want to have to take medication because it's expensive and I can't really afford it, it's longterm, and my marriage has enough problems without having to also deal with the sexual side effects that are common with antidepressants.

However, I've been working on my depression on my own since back in March and I can't say I'm all that 'better'. Sometimes I feel fine, not exactly content but at least mostly functional, and other days I spend hours in bed not doing much of anything, or being weepy. I made a deal with myself that I would arrange to see a doctor by the end of this month if I'm still not feeling well, but I don't know if I'm well enough. Husband thinks that I am but I'm not so sure. 

One difficulty with this program is that I am having trouble doing thought records every day. I find that I'll do some thought records when I have particularly bad days, but when I feel a bit better, I convince myself that I'm (permanently) better, so I don't notice my mood changing for the worse which is my reminder to do a thought record. Eventually I will feel worse and go back to doing them. Does anyone have ideas for how to be more consistent with doing thought records?
14 years ago 0 1044 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Maybe this isn't the best place to post this.  However, I saw my psychiatrist yesterday afternoon.  After my "crash and burn" last week, it was a good thing to see him and discuss current meds, therapy, and this program.  He likes CBT as much as I do and we discussed his desire for me to see a CBTherapist.  However, the closest one was a 2 hour drive so I've been seen a therapist who is very in tune with CBT and follows along with what I am doing in this on-line program.  However, my psychiatrist told me yesterday that we have one locally now!   hip hip horray....I hope my insurance will cover it.  
 
I think the hardest part about receiving treatment, continueing treatment - was acceptance and understanding that "I'm not crazy, I just have MDD".  Thank goodness it's something I can live with!  Gratitude helps me so much!  Turning it around to a positive. 

14 years ago 0 1693 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Members,

MDD is a serious problem. The good news is that there are many effective treatments available. In fact, over 80 % of people with MDD are eventually able to manage their depression with proper therapy or a combination of therapies. Many feel much better just weeks after starting treatment.

While bipolar disorder is a chronic illness that currently has no cure, staying on treatment, even during well times, can help keep the disease under control and reduce the chance of having recurrent, worsening episodes.

Do not let these or any other reasons stop you from getting the right kind of treatment. If you have MDD, it's very important to get help, just like you would for any serious medical illness. For example, most diabetics will do what they can to get proper medication and make required changes to their diet and lifestyle. Most people with heart problems do the same. MDD is just as serious as diabetes or heart problems, so you should do everything you can to get medical help.

Don't be discouraged from getting help by anyone who says, "It's nothing to worry about," "It's just stress," "It's all in your head," "Snap out of it," or "Get over it." While the person may mean well, the fact is that people who have not had depression often have trouble understanding how serious the problem is.

Common Reasons for Not Seeking Help

People manage to convince themselves that their depression isn't serious
People think that their depression is their "personality"
People often feel embarrassed about talking about depression and anxiety
People often blame themselves for their problems
Others dislike the idea of medication or therapy
People often say that they've sought help but are frustrated because their condition was not diagnosed or treated effectively
Do not confuse your depression with your personality. You're not a "miserable person" - you're a person with MDD, and help is available.
Are you receiving outside assistance? If not, what is holding you back?

Breanne, Bilingual Health Educator


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