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Conference is over!

Hi Jhori,   Congrats on the successful week..........things are definitely looking brighter for you and it's great to see the optimism and elation in your words!!     Faryal, Health Educator
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Progressive Muscle Relaxation

Progressive Muscle Relaxation

When people feel stressed they usually carry anxiety in their body. We often say that people who are anxious are tense people. They usually report a variety of aches and pains including headache, sore neck, back, and shoulders. When you carry anxiety in your body, you feel tense and sore. Feeling tense and sore creates more stress and anxiety…more fuel for the downward spiral of depression. Fortunately there are ways in which you can download tension. Box breathing is one way to reduce anxiety and tension. Progressive muscle relaxation is yet another.

We often don’t notice the tension we carry. What you do in practicing progressive muscle relaxation is simple. Try tensing all of your major muscle groups at once, and then relax. As a result you really notice the feelings of tension and relaxation. Progressive muscle relaxation allows you to relax one muscle group at a time. As you do this you’ll learn to notice which parts of your body are tense, and how to relax them.

To do progressive muscle relaxation you’ll need a half hour or so. You also need to sit or lie down.

In progressive muscle relaxation we tense a muscle group for 10 seconds, and then relax it for 20 seconds. Tense a muscle group and count to 10, relax and count to 20, then tense the next muscle group. The trick is to tense up for 10 seconds and then really let go. Don’t relax the muscle slowly; relax it all at once, so that you can really feel the muscle go from maximum tension to maximum relaxation.

If you have any kind of muscle or joint problem, take it easy. Don’t tense too hard. If it hurts, back off a bit. Use common sense and do not tense any muscle group that causes you pain.

Start with your feet and legs, then your back, chest and stomach, shoulders, hands and arms, move to your head and then finish with a body scan. To get the most out of this exercise you’ll need at least half an hour and a quiet room.

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Progressive Muscle Relaxation

Progressive Muscle Relaxation

Your Back: Gently arch your back to tense the muscles of your lower back. If you have lower back problems skip this part. Hold for a count of 10 then relax for a count of 20.

Your Chest and Stomach

Take a deep breath and tense all of the muscles of your chest and stomach. Hold for a count of 10 then breath out and relax to a count of 20. Repeat.

Your Shoulders

Try to touch your ears with your shoulders to tense the muscles of your shoulders. Squeeze the muscles for a count of 10 then relax for a count of 20. Repeat.

Stretch your upper arms backwards, as if you were trying to touch your shoulder blades together. Hold for a count of 10 then relax for a count of 20. Repeat.

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Autumn goodness

Autumn goodness

Autumn is a great season with its crisp mornings and brilliant afternoons. It also a time of transition between summer and winter and is the season of the harvest.

This allows for nutrient-packed produce and healthy eating.  The bright colours of autumn produce reflect high amounts of vitamins and antioxidants.

As we leave behind the celebration of thanksgiving and prepare for the fun of spooky treats and jack-o-lanterns, consider the goodness packed in pumpkins – the emblematic symbol of fall. They are loaded with Vitamin A and beta carotenes, Vitamins C, K and E, potassium and magnesium. This means it helps to keep skin looking younger, aids in vision, protects from sun damage and helps with prostate problems (especially the seeds).

Other fall offerings include apples, sweet potatoes, butternut squash and greens (also high in Vitamins A, C and potassium) and onions, garlic and beets which provide a host of immune-boosting nutrients strengthening us in preparation for cold and flu season.
As the seasons change it is wise to consume foods that are in season to benefit from their health-enhancing goodness.

Members, share with us other ways of enjoying fall produce…… one example is a hearty autumn soup packed with all these powerful nutrients?  

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Lousy Day

Hello Caden,   It is totally understandable that you are feeling angry and down right now............I imagine you are frustrated and overwhelmed with the work load and it sounds like you need a little break to catch up and regroup. Do you think it might be a good idea to speak with your teacher and explain your situation so that she can appreciate that you are trying your best and that the daily tasks are a little much for you? She may actually be very understanding.   I hope you can find some balance between your assignments and feeling calmer. I also hope that on some level, you are enjoying the english classes.     Faryal, Health Educator
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tiredness nd hunger

Hi Karla,   It is not surprising that your body feels so run down the day after a panic attack. The body is a wise machine and there are various chemicals and hormones that are released in episodes of high stress...........these cause the body to be in a state of depletion. This in turn affects your health and immune function.   The body needs time and the right nutrients to heal and repair. Sleeping, eating well and drinking lots of water are very important at this time. Also any medications you are on should be followed on a regular schedule.   Be kind to yourself and take a nap or a warm bath so that your body can calm down and heal. Add some epsom salts to the bath water...........this will take away the aches from your muscles.   Good luck,     Faryal, Health Educator
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home alone

Hello Zoe,   Welcome to our support centre and for sharing your story. You have reached a great place for lots of advice, encouragement and support.   Please do take the time to go through the program and work through the sessions. Although you will need to place a certain amount of effort into the sessions, the results are well worth it and you will discover many interesting things about yourself in the process.   Also, congratulations on quitting smoking. It may be of help and interest to you to check out our sister site which is a great support for those who are quitting smoking StopSmokingCenter.net   Please post often and let us know how you are doing.     Faryal, Health Educator
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Food fear...

Hi Chiggles,   You made some great progress with the combination meals and spaghetti............that is really fantastic! Hopefully you are feeling less anxious and fearful about trying other foods on your list..........the chocolate would definitely be my next victim!!   Do take your time and pace yourself as you expose yourself to the different foods and sensations. Hopefully eventually you can also start taking your multivitamins again because you may very well have some deficiencies from not eating certain foods. The multivitamin will address these deficiencies and help you to stay strong and healthy.   Way to go!     Faryal, Health Educator
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Fear of taking prescriptions....

Hi Chiggles,   There are many members who have the same fears about swallowing pills as you do. Again, the goal is to expose yourself in small doses and ofcourse taking pills only when you need them. Can you try taking chewable multivitamins? Those may be a better alternative because you don't have to necessarily swallow them.   Many cold and flu medications come in liquid form as well. Would this work as an option for you if need be?   Keep us posted.     Faryal, Health Educator
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How to explain to kids?

Hi Zoe,   It is challenging to explain to your kids why you don't feel well because with a mental disorder they can't see it. Whey you have a cold or flu they can see your physical symptoms and usually these go away.   It's great to see that you are allowing them into your situation by explaining what the problem is and helping them to understand. Your guilt is totally understandable.   I hope you are managing to work through the program and hopefully with small baby steps you can start enjoying activities with your kids soon. Hang in there!     Faryal, Health Educator