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Fear of Choking

darkblue,
 
In order to help you with your fear of dogs and choking, here are ten questions you may find helpful in challenging your anxious thoughts:

When you have an anxious thought, answer some of these 10 questions:

1. Is it "true"?
2. How do I know it’s true?
3. Is it 100% true? (remember something that is 75% or 99% true is  
    not 100% true)
4. What's the evidence for it being true?
5. What’s the evidence against it being true?
6. Has it ever happened before?
7. What's different now?
8. If it were true, how bad would it really be?
9. What's the worst thing that could happen?
10. If the worst thing happened, how bad would it really be?

Members, please feel free to add any tips or strategies you find helpful when trying to challenge your anxious thoughts.
 
Breanne, Bilingual Health Educator
15 years ago 0 1693 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Headlines in Mental Health, Part I

Members,

A recent study conducted by researchers at the University of Minnesota & Vermont have found that there seems to be a link between social acceptance and the incidence of depression & anxiety.

According to their findings, teens who were readily accepted by peers were less likely to internalize emotions and develop anxiety or depression in young adulthood.

What do you think? What was high school like for you? Did you have trouble connecting to others? What solutions do you believe may help youth today?
 
Breanne, Bilingual Health Educator 
15 years ago 0 1693 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
No need to read, just doing some major venting...

Diva,
 
It sounds like you are going through a lot right now. However, it also sounds like you are taking the necessary steps in order to get through this tough time. I think it is a good idea that you go see your family doctor. I also think that it is important for you, like you said, to be able to admit to yourself that there is something wrong, even if it may be depression, as recognizing that there is a problem is the first step to being able to solve that problem. 
You have so much support and encouragement from all of us, so please keep us posted on how you are doing.
How has your day been so far today? How are you feeling?
 
Breanne, Bilingual Health Educator
15 years ago 0 1693 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Physical Energy Outlet

johnnyO,
 
Good for you! Biking, yoga, QiGong, and swimming- these are all great ways to exercise! 
I agree that you need to schedule in the time to exercise, so setting time aside at lunch or scheduling in exercise classes into your daily or weekly routine is a great way to ensure that you stay active.
 
Please keep us posted on all of your successes! 
Great work!


Breanne, Bilingual Health Educator
15 years ago 0 1693 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Getting easier...

Koneko,
 
What exactly is it that makes you nervous about going out for dinner? 
 
If you feel anxious about eating out, here are some questions that you may find helpful in challenging your anxious thoughts: 
When you have an anxious thought, answer some of these 10 questions:

1. Is it "true"?
2. How do I know it’s true?
3. Is it 100% true? (remember something that is 75% or 99% true is  
    not 100% true)
4. What's the evidence for it being true?
5. What’s the evidence against it being true?
6. Has it ever happened before?
7. What's different now?
8. If it were true, how bad would it really be?
9. What's the worst thing that could happen?
10. If the worst thing happened, how bad would it really be?
 
If you love sushi, and you have positive thoughts associated with eating sushi at a restaurant, try to focus on those positive thoughts and feelings.
 
Members, please feel free to add any tips or strategies you find helpful when trying to challenge your anxious thoughts.
 
Breanne, Bilingual Health Educator
15 years ago 0 1693 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
summer storms are here

minnesota,
 
I'm glad to hear that you had a great day yesterday!
How are you feeling today?
 
Breanne, Bilingual Health Educator
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What we know about stress at work

Members,

In the past week, we’ve been talking about stress management. Contrary to popular belief, stress is not a given when it comes to working. Stress at work often leads to:

°          Decrease commitment

°          Decreased productivity

°          Increase in incidence of mental health illnesses such as anxiety & depression

°          Increased incidence of absenteeism

°          Decreased recruitment & retention

°          Decreased customer satisfaction

From this list, you should conclude that learning how to cope effectively with stress in the workplace can result in a better work environment. It also makes you a better employee. If you encourage others to do the same, a better boss or coworker!

How does stress impact you at work?
 
Breanne, Bilingual Health Educator
15 years ago 0 1693 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
vent , wobble, wibble & scream !

cornish-dee,
 
How are you doing this afternoon?
I know it can be difficult at times, but try to keep that positive attitude alive. It is a good thing that you are going to see your doctor. Hopefully they will be able to help you with your physical symptoms.
We are here to help and support you in whatever you need.
Keep on working at it, you can get through this,
 
 
Breanne, Bilingual Health Educator
15 years ago 0 1693 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
More tips for dealing with workplace stress

Members,

In the past week, we’ve been talking about stress management. Contrary to popular belief, stress is not a given when it comes to working. If you are experiencing stress at work and it’s more that you can handle, there are a few things you can do:

°          Follow the chain. The first point of contact should always be those involved. If you’re having trouble with a co-worker, talk to them first. Remember your communication skills. If attempts fail, talk to the next person up the tree, your supervisor.

°          EAP: Many organizations now have in place workplace wellness programs. In some workplaces, HR often fills this role also. Often times, referrals for counseling or classes on stress & anger management are available.

°          Your GP or mental health unit is another resource often available to you. Again, often times they can point you in the right direction for further assistance.

°          Your boss can also be helpful to you in your quest for decreasing stress. Often times, employers do not realize what you have on your plate. Sometimes, arrangements can be made to reorganize the load, increase staff or staff available to help you.

Have any members ever tried to decrease their workplace stress? What was your experience?
 
Breanne, Bilingual Health Educator 
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went out of my comfort zone a bit more today

Minnesota,
 
I am glad to hear that you are going out and biking, and thank you for the rose!
Hopefully the weather will be good tomorrow so you can go out for a nice ride.
Keep us posted!

Breanne, Bilingual Health Educator