What Would You Do??? What is the "Right" thing? Lying is wrong, Silence about Lies is just as wrong...if you know it will result in hurting a Friend. Do you Stand up for a Friend or stay Silent for Another?
Here is what is going on...I took my Ex-fiance to court to get my things back that are in my name and I am paying on them. He is trying to tell the Judge that they were gifts. We have a mutual Friend that told both of us he will not go to court to testify for either of us because he doesn't want to lose our friendships. Well, My Ex told this friend that he was going to lie to the court so I wouldn't get my things back. This friend said he does not want to be involved. His wife told me to go ahead and Subpoena him to testify because of what he knows. This could really help my case, considering I have no other witnesses. What do I do??? I don't want to lose his friendship, but at the same time isn't it the "right" thing to do telling the truth especially to help a friend!?!
I always had a hard time saying "thank you" to complements. I also find myself saying "sorry" for the most stupid things. My family and friends tell me to quit saying sorry all the time. I started this habit being with my ex-fiance with his controlling behavior. He had me convinced that I did everything wrong and was at fault. I try so hard not to fall back into that saying "sorry" for everything. I think I am doing good - definitely much better!
Thank you for all of the advice. I ran out of time today to contact the court after work. I will definitely see if I can get a subpoena on him. I was hoping he would just say "yes"! I am excited to have this over with, then my ex will have absolutely ZERO control left!!!!
Well hopefully this will be it! Tomorrow I have court again and once again I am nervous! I have to say though, that this time is not near as bad anxiety as last time was...I have some confidence to take into the court room and have all my paperwork needed that the Judge requested! Please pray that all goes well and that the Judge is fair in whatever ruling he makes! Thank you.
Thank you Everyone for all of your support! The Judge ordered him to give me back my items or pay me money! I get my Zero-turn Lawnmower tomorrow! - and he starts payment arrangements the end of January. It is such a RELIEF to be done with Court!!! My anxiety didn't disappear like I hoped it would now that it is over. Wishful thinking I guess! Thanks again for all the support and encouragement!!! I appreciate it all.
Thank you Luciana and Davit! I am nervous about meeting tomorrow to get the Lawnmower, but after that there will be final closure!!!!! It is bittersweet.
Thank you Ashley! Yes, I DID IT!!!! It is such an awesome feeling to have my closure today so I can move on. Also Thank you Sunny! It was really hard today...my ex was great - wasn't rude at all, actually was almost "scarily" nice! His mom on the other hand threw my Bagger and set me off. Needless to say I said some bad things to her - which started a fight because she threw my stuff. I am so relieved to be out of that situation! She was mostly to blame for our problems and it shows that she is still running his life. He was polite and didn't get involved in an argument which was very nice. I now can move on with my life and leave him and the negativity behind me. I wish this was an instant quick fix for my anxiety/depression! Unfortunately, I know better. Thank you to everyone for all of your advice and support...and for believing in me! It means a lot to me!
I am having problems with the Exposure work...I am trying to go to the next which is the sample plans and it keeps saying some kind of error. Just wondering if it is my computer or something with the site. Thank you.
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