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Day 9...new to this group

Hello everybody.  This is my 9th day on my journey.  I just found this forum and I love everything about it so far.  I have a question though...is there a way to instant message people who are online for those times when the cravings are real bad and you need somebody to help you through?  I was part of another group, but that option was not available there.  I was nice to just type about my problems, but I had to sit and wait for responses.  Sometimes you don't get responses for hours.
 
Well,  either way...I look forward to walking through this process with all of you.
 
Amy
 
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Quit date May 21, 2012 - any suggestions

Mommy of 2,
 
I completely understand your frustrations.  I have 3 small boys ages 7, 6, and 2.  My 6 years old seems to give me the most problems.  I do believe that he suffers from "Middle Child Syndrome".   That being said, he whines....a lot.  The only thing that I have been able to do is let him know that I'm upset and that I need to get away from a minute.  I'll either go outside or go sit on my bed for a couple of minutes.  Some times this works.  Other times it makes his tantrums even worse.  I don't know if I'm doing it right, but I'll be keeping an eye on your post to see if I can get any helpful tips also.  :-)
 
Pruettsgirl 
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Quit date May 21, 2012 - any suggestions

Mommy of 2,
 
I smoked 1 1/2 - 2 packs a day for 20 years....so we are pretty close to the same.  There were times that I "cut back" but then I never made that final step of quitting.  I guess I'm just one of those people that have to make up my mind in the moment and do it.  I didn't set a quit date...I just quit.  I still had 3 packs of unopened cigarettes.  They went in the trash and I'm loving my decision.   
 
If you EVER need to talk....just let me know.
 
Pruettsgirl 
11 years ago 0 5 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Day 9...new to this group

Thanks Ashley,
 
Even though there is no instant messages I've already found this site to be extremely helpful and easy to navigate.
 
I really look forward to connecting with lots of people to make this a successful quit!!!
 
Pruettsgirl 
10 years ago 0 5 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Quit today!!!

I finally made that step.  I quit at 6pm ET. I plan on being on here quite a bit. I figure if I'm focusing on helping other people, then I won't be thinking about my own cravings.  LOL.
 
Amy