I'm happy to report that one week after finding out how bad off my marriage really was, we are seeing definite progress. Not only have my husband and I talked quite a bit, but I've cut red wine (my bugaboo) out of my life at least until I seem to have a better handle on moderation, had a couple of drinks WITH my husband (and haven't lapped him like I've done in the past), and have been really trying to be present. It's only a week, but I think we really stand a chance!