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Banjogal, You should be proud! This is a huge stressor and a small victory was made. It's these small steps that will lead you towards the bigger goal. Take this experience and learn from it so you may double your efforts in the face of the next trigger. Kudos to you on a job well done and thanks for checking in! Danielle, Bilingual Support Specialist
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G'day again people... just doing the weekly check-in. Hope everyone's had a good week. I have been drinking a fair bit this week - I think out of frustration. Last night, my partner and I made the decision to separate and typically I headed straight for the whisky bottle. HOWEVER... while i did drink a fair bit, I actually was able to stop myself after a while, and didn't do the damage I would have in the past. Yay me. Yep - sad times, but feeling like I can control the alcohol (even a little bit)really helps. How's the house painting / move going geekster - and what's happening for the rest of you? Take care - R x
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HEY BANGOGAL... How are you doing?? What happened with your partner??Are you going to stay together?? I think that troubles are a true test of the relationship,it's easy to be all happy/happy when things are wonderful.I hope it all works out for you. How are the new boots? My glasses showed up with a small crack in one lenses!!A new lenses has been ordered,I,m awaiting a call for the replacement.Other than that they seem good. I,m working tomorrow and I've been busy painting the inside of the house.What a job!! Yuck!! ok...take it easy...
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Hi guys - thanks so much for the support. I really scared myself the other night. Didn't drink last night, and dont intend to for the rest of the week. Well the news aint great on the relationship front, but I know that if I drink right now, it won't be responsibly, so will try and get through it bit by bit. Luckily I have a friend I can now be honest to about my drinking and she's been great... as have you... thanks.
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Hey whAT'S GOING ON?? Why are you breaking up?? How do you feel about this?? So..hard to cut down on drinking when you have many other worries. I hear you Banjogal!!I also have lots of crap on my plate!Mostly relating to my job..my Husband is good, he is my soulmate. What about your Guy?? Maybe you will meet the right man for you if you are single. I was married before to a terrible person,I divorced him and soon met my "real" husband.WE are very happy together and just celebrated our 15th anniversary. So maybe your future is very bright..I think that you are a strong woman who can make a life for herself. Take care friend :)
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Banjogal, Not crazy at all. Absolutely there is an emotional component to this addiction. Start trying to replace this old coping strategy with new ones. Here are a few ideas, hope they help: * Keep busy: Take on a project, it can be as simple as reorganizing a closet, painting a wall or exploring an interest * Keep a journal: Letting it all out on paper may give you the emotional outlet you need and it may also help you sort through your feelings. * Seek support: Whether it be from friends, family or an additional support group outside the AHC. * Keep track: Keeping track of where, when and why you are drinking may help you identify triggers, barriers and patterns. * Set a goal: Use the program tools to set a new goal and review your strategies for keeping it. If you need any help, just ask. Danielle _______________________
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Guys - started out great and am in lala land again... lots of reasons but none really shape up to the amount i am drinking... i have no support where i am, and am in a crazy space. relationship after 7 yrs is about to end and i dont want to get thru it over wine anymore. am trying... but not well enuf obviously... any advise on the personal level? sure - i can drink water and eat and excercise, but where is the emotional content of addiction? dont mean to sound crazy but this is a moment that could throw me or heal me... would apprciate some comments... B x

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